He has never been with a big woman, but wants to give it a go just to see what it's like and get a checkmark on his sexual bucket list.Innocent enough, I suppose, but not sufficiently fulfilling from my perspective for me to be bothered.
When I began this journey of discovery earlier this year I might have been one of them.
It had been many years since I had dated, and although I have been fat my whole adult life, my body now is larger than the one I had when I was last single. One of the first men I met after the separation was someone I initially assumed was completely out of my league.
These guys are often in their twenties and really like the fact that I am an older woman.
Perhaps that would allow them to check off two boxes at once.
I've discovered that there are a few different categories that the men who are interested in me tend to fall into, based both on those who I have hooked up with and the many others I have chatted with on the couple of different dating websites I belong to.
One type that I have learned to pretty quickly recognize is the bucket-list guy.
He is the absolute whole package -- smart, successful, a hell of a nice guy, not to mention extremely handsome with the gym-perfected body of a Greek god.
The kind of guy who can pretty much have his pick of women.
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Early last year I ended a monogamous relationship with someone I had been with for more than a decade.
That is not to say that I think there is anything creepy about being attracted to my body type. Probably my favourite guys are those who find me really, really physically attractive and have no problem owning that desire. Guys who massage my belly, who grab handfuls of my ass, who bury themselves between my breasts.