This should be no surprise, since we have an enemy set against us and our impending marriage (1 Pet. He hates God, and he hates marriage because it depicts the gospel (Eph. One of Satan's most effective strategies to corrupt the gospel-portraying union of marriage is to attack couples through sexual sin before they say “I do.” Here are four of his most common ploys to attack marriages before they begin.God's ways are good, but Satan wants us to believe they aren't.
In today’s world, many couples are not concerned about it.
They are just simply having sex with each other every time they get together, and that’s the central part of their lives.
Sadly, Tim and Jess's story is all too familiar.
Many unmarried Christian couples struggle with sexual sin.
They’re not married, don’t know if they’ll ever get married, and are just enjoying each other’s bodies.
Most people who live together before they get married don’t get married and those who do have a higher divorce rate. You’ve already agreed that this is not the biblical pattern and thus is not a healthy pattern. What you’re demonstrating, by the fact that you say, “I want to do this but we always fall back into the same pattern again” is the strong bonding nature of sexual relationships. Sex was designed to be a deep bonding experience between a husband and wife.However, every time we try to stay pure we end up slipping up.What makes matters worse is that I am currently four hours away at school and every time we see each after being apart a week or two (even when we have had full intentions of not being sexual) we end up falling into our old habits.Couples like us can have a strong sex life, but it's fueled by deeper characteristics than fleeting passion. It's the man's responsibility to care for his future wife by leading her toward Jesus and away from sin, darkness, and the pain of evil. Don't let your relationship remain unexamined by other godly Christians. If you have fallen into sexual sin, today is the day to plead for mercy and turn to Christ in faith.Satan wants couples to get used to running on the caffeine and sugar of lust rather than mature love of service and sacrifice. If he sets the wrong pattern here, he'll be digging out for years afterward—and may never regain the ground he loses apart from God's grace. Both of you should have a godly couple or group of faithful friends who hold you accountable. May God give us mercy to pursue purity for his glory and our good.Every time we push the boundaries with our fiancée or lead her into sin we are communicating, though we don't mean to, “You can't trust me because I'm willing to use and disregard you to get what I want.” This is certainly one of Satan's deadliest strategies, and the one I suspect hurt Tim and Jess the most. It's important to point out, however, that when we resist sexual sin, God blesses a relationship with the exact opposite effect.