One study termed this practice "profile as promise": Online daters create a vision of who they could be, rather than who they are.
Compared with real life, people who meet online actually display more initial social attraction to each other -- they are more interested in hanging out with each other than people who randomly meet face-to-face -- but they also display far less trust.
To perform the experiment, the researchers created four different profiles that differed along two basic dimensions.
One of those dimensions was what they call "selective self-presentation," or the degree to which people emphasized the best parts of themselves and minimized the worst.
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The second dimension they looked at was "warranting" -- basically, backing up any written claims by including some kind of evidence, such as detailed personal information that could be verified online, or links to a third-party professional site that could verify their biography.
The researchers asked a group of 316 nationally representative online daters to review one of the four sample online dating profiles, which had some combination of high or low selective self-presentation and high or low warranting.I watched her swipe left to reject a professional football team's worth of New York-area hipsters, jocks and nerds.Some were disqualified for being basic-looking bros with too-big arm muscles, and some for trying too hard to be hip, whether emphasizing their DJ gigs or having super hipster photos.Online dating has made potential partners much more readily available than ever before -- and yet also, somehow, disposable.The other day I was sitting on a train with a friend as she flicked through profiles on Bumble, an online dating service in which women have to reach out to men first.However, there are exceptions, and you need to be aware of how to keep yourself - and your bank account and savings - protected while meeting people online.