Because those cologne-wearing, Dolce-upgraded, French-press-drinking, 30-something hunks are a whole different animal. He likely believes he's seen everything, or at least more than you because he's older, so prove him wrong. He'll be impressed and allured by your precocious disposition.4. You can't get totally obliterated Saturday night and ruin the whole next day because — guess what? Don't talk about the age difference — but if he brings it up, play it coy.
That means no joking about him being an old man or way, way worse… (Recoils in horror.) Heaven forbid you ever, ever, use the f-word! He's not moving too fast by offering to cook you dinner.You're a single, 20 -something girl; you bet your ass you take that nutritious, well-balanced, home-cooked meal made in a well-furnished and clean apartment (neither of which you've encountered in weeks), and you embrace it with open arms.Don't play stupid when you know what you're talking about; instead, allow him to teach you something new when you don't. You will be pleasantly surprised to learn that you don't need to nose-dive into a face full of pubes — unless he moonlights as Bozo the Clown.12.Smart girls with personality can rejoice after years of griping that guys never give them a chance because the boys have finally grown up! You’ll know when he likes you or not; 30-year-olds don't play games.Instead, I was that overly high-strung type-A personality... Read more If you turn on the radio at any given time, you’ll probably hear a song about someone falling in love with another, or someone feeling betrayed by the harsh sting of infidelity.
Read more Last summer, I connected with a guy online. Our messages back and forth became more and more frequent as we discovered things we had in common. When it comes to being faithful, let’s address the issue of whether staying...
Though you can’t control anyone else’s behavior, you can control your own. Read more My single friends and I often joke about the advice we’re constantly given by our parents, our coupled-up friends and basically, anyone who hears yes, we’re ‘still single’ and yes, ‘still looking.’ The words of wisdom are never delivered with...
Read more Even though I’ve been unwillingly single for most of mine, I’ve never hated Valentine’s Day.
Unlike most college-aged kiddos, my sights were never set on studying abroad.
I never dabbled with the idea of taking time off to backpack around Europe or do a gap year in Asia to find my zen.
Thus, we ladies have looked to older men to fulfill those more grown-up needs.