If you guys have a great time, you're both left wanting more." —Greg G." /"Please don't assume we're going to the nicest restaurant in the city because I won't take you there.
Opt for something that gives you both an easy out, like lunch or a drink.
DON’T naively assume that his photo is as up-to-date and accurate as yours.
In a phone chat, you’ll get a better sense of whether your personalities click. Note: it’s a bad sign if, during his monologue about his golf swing, you’re checking your watch and praying that you lose your cell-phone signal.DON’T disclose where you live or for that matter, any personal information that could lead to your address, such as your home phone number, last name, or an email address that includes your last name.DO post a recent photo, and write an honest description of yourself.One of our guy friends salivated over a picture of a pgorgeous, blonde, bikini-clad model.DO move the conversation along from email to cell phone.
Some people are great writers – or even have a friend ghost-writing for them.Unless you work in a totally male milieu – for instance, a urologists’s office, NASCAR race track, or beef ‘n’ ale house -- your quest to meet a man will take you to the Internet.The good news is that you’ll find thousands and thousands of guys online, all trolling for dates.Sometimes horror stories about them can make for fun discussion, but don't ever bring your ex into the conversation if it's not called for.When I hear about a girl's man, I'm assuming we probably shouldn't be on that date period.On the other hand, be prepared to spend hours and hours learning how to sort the wheat from the chaff.